Couples Counselling · Crowthorne, Berkshire

Two people.
One quiet room.

A safe place for both of you to talk, listen, and find each other again.

Why couples counselling

Relationships are central to who we are.

“Relationships are central to our well being. They make us feel we belong, and they are central to our self esteem.”

When life puts pressure on a relationship, the strain often shows up in the small, daily moments long before it shows up in the big ones. Counselling gives the two of you a place to slow down, look at what is happening, and decide together what you want to build next.

A couple making a heart with their hands at the beach

Common pressures

What couples bring to the room.

Every relationship is different, but the pressures rhyme. Some of the things couples come to talk about:

Money worries

Debt, income changes, different attitudes to money.

Conflict

Recurring arguments, walking on eggshells, feeling unheard.

Sexual difficulties

Mismatched desire, intimacy fading, talking about it feeling impossible.

Family issues

In laws, blended families, caring for ageing parents.

Health issues

Illness, chronic conditions, mental health, the strain of caring.

Children & teenagers

Parenting differences, teenage years, empty nest.

Life changes

Moving, redundancy, retirement, midlife, becoming parents.

Stressful work

Long hours, burnout, work spilling into home.

How it shows up

Pressure has a shape.

When stress sits inside a relationship, you can often see it in patterns like these:

Moving forward together

What the work looks like.

Coming for relationship therapy offers a couple a safe place to share, talk about and explore their difficulties and life issues. Together we can work on:

  • Understanding each other
  • Better ways of communicating
  • Awareness of your own and your partner's thoughts and feelings
  • Dealing with conflict and restrictive patterns of behaviour
  • Investing in the couple relationship
  • Building a core of friendship together
  • Creating better connection, compassion and intimacy

“I believe it is possible to learn together new, more positive ways to relate and love each other, in ways that last and allow the relationship to grow in more healthy ways.”

Ali's therapy room, with wicker chairs and a window onto the garden
The therapy room, in the garden.
Ali Sanchez, counsellor and psychotherapist

Your counsellor

Ali Sanchez

BSc (Hons) Psychology · Dip.Couns. · MBACP (Accred) · GBMPsS

More than 25 years of experience working with hundreds of people from all walks of life, including individuals and couples, executives and students.

Couples sessions are £95 for 60 minutes, held in a quiet, private room in my garden in Crowthorne, Berkshire, or online if that suits you better.